I am lucky to have a great brother in law who has a birthday the day before little C. We threw him a small party with friends and family and I made for him my chocolate cup cakes. The first thing you need to realize is that 1.) D does not eat cake. 2.) these were gluten free and dairy free cup cakes and no food coloring 3.) no one knew. I call that success. The boys also loved the fact that we had Star Wars party favors and that they could eat what everyone else could. It was a great party all around.